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Kol Nidre Sermon 5764,
Aliyah Resources
Rabbi Barry Leff
For most of the past 2,000 years the history of the Jewish
people has largely been one disaster after another. In the year 70
the great Temple was destroyed and Jerusalem laid waste. In 132 the
Bar Kochba revolt was brutally crushed, and with it died the dream of an
independent Israel. During the Middle Ages Jews were treated as
second class non-citizens by both Muslims and Christians. When the
Renaissance was flourishing in Europe—for Christians—Jews were being
packed into ghettos. Many claim that the ceremony with which we
began Yom Kippur, Kol Nidre, has its origins in Spain, where Jews wanted
to be absolved from the insincere vows they made in accepting Christianity
on pain of death or exile. When the Enlightenment, and citizenship,
came for Jews in Western Europe, Jews in Eastern Europe were being killed
in pogroms, a foreshadowing of the horrors that would come later during
the Shoah, when a third of the Jews then alive, worldwide, were killed by
the Nazis for no reason other than being Jewish.
And then, in 1948, a true
miracle happened. A miracle which is every bit as great as the
parting of the Red Sea. A miracle which shows us that God truly has
not forgotten His promises to the Jewish people. In May of 1948, for
the first time in 2,011 years, the land of Israel was not under foreign
domination. An independent Jewish state was again declared on the
soil of ancient Judea. More miracles followed. Tiny Israel
turned back the armies of Egypt, Lebanon, Syria, Iraq, and Jordan and
ended the War of Independence with substantially more territory than had
been originally granted by the UN. And again our tiny country turned
back vastly numerically superior Arab forces in 1967 and in 1973.
The modern state of Israel
is far and away the most exciting thing to happen to the Jewish people in
the past two millenia. For 70 generations, our ancestors prayed for
this day. And the day has finally come.
And yet here we are, still
sitting in Exile! What an anti-climax! In the Amidah we just
recited, we turned and faced Jerusalem, as we do three times a day.
We’re only an ElAl ticket away. And we stay put.
My wife Lauri and I have
talked about it a lot, and thought about it more, and we have decided that
we don’t want to sit on the sidelines. We are going to make aliyah.
We are going to return home to Israel.
And this is a question that
each and every one you should ask yourself. Should I make aliyah?
It doesn’t matter whether you come to shul every Shabbat, or only once a
year. It doesn’t matter if you consider yourself a Canadian Jew, or
a Jewish Canadian. It doesn’t matter whether you are just starting a
career or retiring. Whether or not to make aliyah is a question we
all should think about. If the answer is no—if you make the
conscious decision to continue to live in Exile from our ancestral
homeland—clearly the choice is yours, but you should be clear about WHY
you are making that decision. Because whichever way you decide—to
return to Israel, or to stay in Galut—it has profound implications for the
nature of your relationship to Judaism, it has profound implications for
your family, and I believe it has profound implications for Israel and the
Jewish people.
Many of us think of Israel
as a kind of “insurance policy.” A refuge, a place to go, for Jews
who are suffering from persecution, or economic woes. And it has
certainly filled that role for millions of Jews from Europe, from the Arab
countries, from the Soviet Union, and most recently from South Africa and
Argentina .
Most of us in North America
don’t face much blatant Anti-Semitism. We are full citizens of our
host countries. The economic opportunities here are better than the
opportunities in Israel. So why would anyone in their right mind
choose to give up the material comfort and life of plenty we have here, to
go to a country torn by war, torn by ethnic and religious divides, a place
that seems difficult, exotic and dangerous?
The short answer is, for
the sake of the Jewish people, and for the sake of our Jewish souls.
Israel needs more Jews.
The Arabs are out-reproducing us. If we want Israel to still be a
Jewish state in 50 years we need more Jewish Israeli babies.
But more than just more
Jews, Israel desperately needs more Jews like us. And I feel
comfortable lumping all of us here today together. Regardless of our
backgrounds, we all have experience living in a Western democracy.
There is MUCH that Israel can learn from Canada…and the way that
“learning” takes place is through Canadians—or better, “former
Canadians”—living in Israel.
North Americans can help
provide a vision for what Israel can become. And if Israel is to
become something greater, is to become a true light to the nations, it
needs visionaries.
Israel struggles with
issues of pluralism and equality. Beduoins and Druze who
are loyal citizens of Israel have neither equal rights nor equal
opportunities. The environment in Israel is so polluted that when
four athletes fell from a poorly-built bridge during the Maccabiah games
in 1997, they weren’t killed by the fall but from being poisoned when they
accidentally swallowed some of the water.
Jews from North America
know what it means to live in a dynamic functioning democracy that affords
protection for minorities and for the environment. Israel needs more
citizens who will lobby hard to fix the things that are wrong with Israeli
society.
Israel needs more
Conservative and Reform Jews. Far too many Israelis have been
totally turned off to religion by a harsh, uncompromising, version of
Judaism that is all they see around them. Many Israelis are secular
who would probably be very happy in a Conservative or Reform setting—they
just don’t know anything about it, and view us with suspicion because
that’s what they read in the propaganda from the Orthodox establishment.
A “kinder, gentler” Judaism could go a long way in keeping Jews who would
otherwise be secular in touch with the faith of their ancestors.
But let’s face it.
Not very many people are going to move to Israel because Israel needs us.
We live in a selfish, individualistic society. So how would living
in Israel be good for you?
The answer to that question
varies depending on many factors, not the least of which is how religious
you are. Let’s start with the case of the religious Jew. If
you are religious—if you take the idea of being commanded by God
seriously—most rabbis would agree that it is a mitzvah to live in Israel.
And I don’t mean mitzveh, as in the Yiddish phrase your Bubba used
to mean “good deed,” but I mean mitzvah, the Hebrew word which
means commandment.
You probably know there are
613 commandments. What you might not know is there is no agreement
on exactly what those mitzvot are. Ramban, Nachmanides, includes
yeshivat Eretz Yisrael, settling
the land of Israel, making aliyah, as one of them. Rambam,
Maimonides, does not include this in his list, but most commentators say
that’s because he didn’t list “prerequisite” mitzvot—he does list other
commandments which hinge on living in Israel.
Most authorities
agree that making aliyah is a Biblical commandment, based on Numbers
33:53: "And you shall inherit the land and settle in it."
In the Talmud in tractate
Ketubot it says “A person should always live in Eretz Yisrael, even in a
city of mostly gentiles, instead of outside of Israel, even in a city of
mostly Jews, for someone who lives in Eretz Yisrael is like someone who
has a God, and someone who lives in chutz la'aretz (outside Israel) is
like someone who doesn't have a God.” If a man wanted to make
aliyah, halachically the wife is forced to go with him, or she gets a
divorce without any financial settlement. The wife can also force
the husband to make aliyah: if she wants to make aliyah, the husband has
to go with her, or pay her her ketubah.
In the Amidah we say a
prayer which includes the words “v’kabtzanu
yachad ma’arba kanfot ha’aretz”, and “gather us
together from the ends of the earth.” Three times a day, six days a
week (we don’t say this prayer on Shabbat or holidays) we pray for God to
gather us in Israel. If an observant Jew starts saying this prayer
when he turns 13, by the time he turns fifty he will have prayed that God
should help us all make aliyah over 33,000 times. How many times do
you have to say something before you get the message?
Most of you aren’t that
religious. There probably aren’t many people here tonight who have
said that prayer for the ingathering from Galut over 30,000 times.
Since I’m a late bloomer, I probably haven’t said it more than four or
five thousand times. But there are lots of good reasons to move to
Israel that apply equally whether you are already religious, are only
potentially religious.
Israel is the easiest place
in the world to be a Jew. Here in Richmond, if you want to keep
kosher, it means going to Garden City to buy bread, Omnitsky’s to buy
meat, and not forgetting to bring your reading glasses when you go to
grocery store, because you have to read labels very carefully. In
Israel, almost every bakery is a kosher bakery, you have to go out of your
way to find treif meat, and in most grocery stores you can literally buy
anything on the shelves. There is no shortage of kosher restaurants,
with every kind of cuisine from Moroccan to Chinese to Italian. And
of course the best falafel in the world.
Here in Richmond if you
have kids and try and keep Shabbat, it can be difficult. The kids
all want to participate in extra-curricular activities like soccer,
hockey, dance, Girl Guides or Scouts. And those extra-curricular
activities often involve programs on Shabbat. It can be very tough
to keep telling your kid “no, you can’t do that on Shabbat.” So many
parents don’t try. In Israel it’s not a conflict. The soccer
competitions will not be scheduled on Shabbat. Period.
Here in Richmond if you
want your children to have a Jewish education, it’s an expensive
proposition. Day school tuition runs as high as $5000 a year per
child. Two kids and you are looking at about $10,000 a year.
In Israel, day school tuition is free. You have your choice between
secular public schools, religious public schools (from relatively liberal
to ultra-orthodox), or Tali schools, which bring some religious content to
the secular schools.
And those conflicting
activities aren’t just issues for your kids. Here in Richmond we
start Shabbat services at 8pm most of the year because people have to
work. Even in the winter, when Shabbat starts at 4pm, the earliest
we have services is about 6pm, because people have to work…in Israel, your
boss will NEVER make you work late on Friday. In Isarel, practically
every synagogue, Orthodox, Conservative or Reform, has services that start
when Shabbat starts, not at some arbitrary hour.
Here in Galut, to be an
observant Jew can be very tough. If you take off all of the days mandated
as days of rest—two days for Rosh Hashana, Yom Kippur, the first two days
of Sukkot, the last two days of Sukkot, the first two days of Passover,
the last two days of Passover, two days for Shavuot—you won’t have any
vacation time left. You’ll never get any skiing in! In Israel
it’s so much easier—for one thing, other than Rosh Hashana, they only
celebrate the holidays for one day—and for another thing, the secular
holidays ARE the religious holidays.
Shabbat in Israel is an
amazing experience, especially in Jerusalem or other religious areas.
In Jerusalem, you can tell when Shabbat is coming. There is less
traffic on the streets. The stores start closing. A peaceful
atmosphere descends on the city. Within an easy walk of any
apartment in Jerusalem there will be dozens of synagogues to choose from
of all flavors. Traditional with a cantor. “Happy clappy”
filled with young people. The speed-daven. Whatever works for
you, you can find it.
For all the tension between
Orthodox and Conservative or Reform on an official level, it mostly
disappears on a personal level. During the time I lived in Israel I
had plenty of Orthodox Jews eat dinner at my home. It’s a very rare
occasion that a seriously Orthodox Jew would eat in my home in Canada or
the US. Not because of my standards of kashrut—rather because of
their standards of politics. In Israel there is more a sense of
we’re all just Jews—you are not so much defined and pigeon-holed by what
kind of synagogue you choose to go to, or which rabbi you choose to go to
with questions of halacha. There is more a sense that there are only
two kinds of Jews—serious Jews, who take Judaism, learning, practice,
seriously—and everyone else.
Experiencing the holidays
in Israel is truly amazing -- something you might not get to appreciate if
you just pop over for a visit. On Yom Kippur there are no cars on
the streets at all. It’s eerie. But there are hundreds of
bicycles and skateboards—everyone lets their kids take advantage of the
lack of traffic.
On Sukkot every house,
every apartment balcony has a sukkah. You walk down the street and
you hear lots of singing, laughing, and enjoyment. It’s a beautiful
experience. And in Israel, the weather is almost always very
pleasant around Sukkot—it’s before the rainy season, the temperatures are
mild, it’s lovely.
On Passover every grocery
store goes “kosher l’pesach.” In some neighborhoods they will have
big cauldrons of water bubbling on the streets to simplify kashering your
pots and pans.
Shavuot, a holiday little
noticed here, is a night when the entire city of Jerusalem stays up all
night learning Torah. Walk around the streets at 2am and every few
blocks you’ll pass a synagogue with people learning. World-class
scholars offer lessons open to the public at 3am. And about 4am
there is an amazing sight: rivers of people joining together, all walking
towards the Western Wall to converge and pray at dawn. We now have a
Conservative section at the wall, where on holidays like Shavuot we can
pray without a mechitza, men and women together, women reading Torah.
And even if you are totally
NOT religious there are plenty of other good reasons to make aliyah.
For many Jews in Israel, simply living in Israel is the expression of
their Zionism. I had one Israeli tell me, “we don’t need religion,
that’s for you Jews who live in galut.” And in one way he was right.
If you have a strong Jewish identity—and all of you here clearly must have
some kind of Jewish identity, otherwise you would be out watching movies
at the Vancouver International Film Festival instead of sitting here
listening to me—and you want your grandkids to be Jewish, religion needs
to play a role in your life. Israel is the only place in the world
where being a secular Jewish family can be a long term option. Here
in Richmond, where your kid is likely to be the only Jew in his public
school class, if you don’t practice Judaism at home, the chances are
pretty high your kids will marry someone who isn’t Jewish. After
all, who do they meet? The intermarriage rate in Israel is, needless
to say, minuscule.
Israel is a beautiful
place. In a space of a few hundred miles you go from the
forests and mountains in the north to fertile agricultural plains, to the
Mediterranean beaches, to the hills of Judea which LOOK Biblical, to the
desert, to the Baja-style resorts of Eilat. If you live in
Jerusalem, in January you can drive a couple of hours in one direction and
go sunbathing and spa hopping at the Dead Sea. A few hours in the
other direction and you can go skiing on Mt. Hermon. No wonder so
many people fought over this little scrap of real estate.
Vancouver is also a
beautiful place. However, you can really only appreciate that beauty
to its fullest for maybe five months a year. The other seven months
a year, well, I’ve noticed it rains here. And when it’s not raining,
it’s grey. The weather in Jerusalem is perfect. Mild winters,
and even in the winter the skies are mostly clear and blue, and they have
beautiful summers. Year round outdoor café weather.
It’s kind of ironic because
right now everyone thinks of Israel as such a dangerous place. Yet
when we lived there, which was during the beginning of this Intifada, we
felt perfectly comfortable having our 13 year old daughter and niece walk
half an hour home at 10 at night. And this is in the heart of
Jerusalem, a city of 600,000, not in some secluded suburb. Our
neighbors sent their five year old kid to the grocery store to buy milk
and bread. Women can walk throughout the city at any time of night
and feel safe.
Being an Anglo, an English speaker, you are part of a
community within a community. There are plenty of “landesmen,”
people from the home country. Mo and Anney Soronow estimate that
there are 200 former Vancouverites living in Israel, including three
rabbis that I know of: Rabbis Solomon, Benarroch, and Baumol. There
are English language newspapers, English language theaters. I
strongly recommend learning Hebrew, but I have met people who made aliyah
20 years ago who still don’t speak much Hebrew. It’s pretty easy to
get by with English.
When I’m in Israel I feel alive. I feel like I’m part
of history in the making. To make history living in Canada you have
to do something truly significant. Yet I had that feeling of being
part of something larger and grander than myself just by being physically
present in Israel. Everyone in Israel is a news junkie.
Conversations tend to stop when the beep-beep-beep announcing a news
broadcast is heard. It’s because the news is
real. It affects your life.
And a survey has shown that
living in that intense environment must be very satisfying. There
was a recent survey taken in Israel to see how happy people are. The
results were rather surprising. 83% of all Israelis reported
being “satisfied” or “very satisfied” with their lives. A recent
article in the Jerusalem Post, when comparing this “happiness quotient” in
Israel with other countries said “In the shangri-la of Canada, for
example, where even global warming is good news, the satisfaction rate is
85%.” The author, Hillel Halkin concluded “Knowing what you are
living for makes up for a lot of other things. This is as true of
countries as it is of individuals. And 83% of us appear to realize that.”
If you have kids, however, I think the most compelling
reason to make aliyah is so that your children will be real Israelis.
Last summer I spent two weeks in Israel. One evening three young
ladies, soldiers in the IDF, came to speak to the group I was studying
with. Each of them was 20 years old, and each came from a religious
background. Two of them are on a hesder program, where they combine
religious studies with military service for a few years. I was blown
away by the maturity, wisdom, and solid moral values of these three young
ladies. They work in a program teaching soldiers who came from
disadvantaged backgrounds high school equivalency studies. Which by
itself also says something about the nature of Israeli society—their
students were at the END of their service, not the beginning. The
IDF was sending these kids to school for six months to benefit society,
not to benefit the IDF. We are so obsessed with the security
situation in Israel, I was really taken aback when one of them said
“Security is not the most important issue facing Israel today. There
are so many issues regarding integration of newcomers, education, housing,
etc., that people who decide who to vote for strictly on the security
issue are not doing the right thing.” The young lady who brought
this up was clearly influenced in her thinking by having real contact with
the disadvantaged segments of Israeli society that she had never really
interacted with before...e.g., Druze who didn't speak Hebrew, and didn't
have much of an education. She had no idea there were people like
that in Israel, and felt something really needed to be done.
Another one of these young women shared a story which I
felt captured what it means to live in Israel in these difficult times.
Her father is a professor at HU; two of the people who were killed in the
bombing there were good friends of hers, people who were frequent Shabbos
guests at her home. She was on the bus coming home from her Army
base when her cell phone rang--it was her mother, and she wanted to tell
her about the death of her friends rather than have her hear the names
over the radio. She immediately started sobbing hysterically, and
everyone on the bus knew what it meant. No one on the bus had to ask
her what happened...she felt very supported by the understanding presence
of the people on the bus.
And that little episode speaks volumes about why we should
make aliyah now, not just when things are going well. It’s not
strangers who are going through difficult times right now. It’s
family. It’s a fantastic feeling to be someplace where you are part
of an “us,” not part of a “them.” Your kids will never come home
from school singing “Rudolph the Red-Nosed Reindeer” or announcing they
have the part of the Easter Bunny in the school play. December 25 is
just another day at the office.
And ultimately that’s why Lauri and I want to make aliyah.
Israel is home, and like Dorothy says in the movie, “there’s no place like
home.”
If you have tuned out ever since I said, “I’m making
aliyah,” please tune back in. To be clear, we are not making aliyah
this week, or even this month, or even this year. It’s a long term
plan, and there are a lot of factors that go into our timing, including
our financial situation and the age of the kids. But in asking the
question: “will we make aliyah someday?” our answer is a definite “yes.”
Interestingly, it felt kind of scary for Lauri and I to make this a public
statement—even when we couch it in terms of a “someday.” But by
making that statement, that we plan to make aliyah, all we are doing is
affirming what we say in our prayers everyday. If you stop to think
about it, the siddur issues us all kinds of challenges. Aliyah is
one of them.
And Israel wants us: it has
never been easier to make aliyah. In addition to substantial
financial support from the Israeli government, there is an organization
called Nefesh b’Nefesh which provides financial help to Jews from North
America who want to make aliyah. Grants can be as high $25,000 US
for a family.
If you have not yet visited Israel, before asking the
aliyah question, you owe it to yourself to spend some time there. I
never would have answered “yes” to the idea of making aliyah before living
there and seeing just how incredible and exciting it is. I think of
the first exile from Israel, 2,500 years ago, when the Babylonians
destroyed the first temple, and how many people chose to stay in comfort
in Bavel rather than return to help rebuild Israel. And that was
just 70 years later, just a generation or two. I want to be part of
group that returned to rebuild the Jewish homeland, not part of the group
that disappeared into the Diaspora.
I encourage you to fill out (after Yom Kippur of course)
the pledge card that was left on your seat that you will make a visit to
Israel in the next twelve months. There are many ways to visit
Israel—on a mission, part of a group, by yourself. If enough Beth
Tikvah people want to go, I’ll be happy to lead a congregational trip.
And if you are fortunate enough to be between the ages of 18 and 26 you
can go for free on a Birthright trip. How can you turn down a deal
like that?
If you think you want to wait until things “calm down” in
Israel, let me share something Rabbi Shlomo Riskin told me: “If Israel is
Disneyland, you visit when the weather is good. If Israel is
mishpocha, family, you visit when we need you.”
And Israel needs us now.
G’mar chatimah tovah.
I was very pleased to hear that
my talk on Kol Nidre has at least a few people thinking about aliyah.
Below please find a list of resources that can make the process easier.
The Nefesh b'Nefesh program is truly amazing: they provide very
substantial grants to people from North America who make aliyah.
And of course, I am happy to assist in any way I can and am available
for consultation.
Rabbi Leff
Aliyah Resources
Programs for visitors to Israel:
http://www.israelprograms.org/
Includes many interesting volunteer
opportunities
Nefesh b’nefesh: assistance for people
from North American, including substantial (up to $25,000 US) grants.
Probably the first site to check out, and first organization to contact if
you are interested in making aliyah:
http://www.nefeshbnefesh.org/
Israel Aliyah Center:
http://www.aliyah.org/
Jewish Agency for Israel Aliyah page:
http://www.jafi.org.il/aliyah1/
Hi-tech aliyah—information specifically
for those who work, or want to work in High-Tech:
http://www.hitech-aliyah.com/
Real Aliyah info pages—how to avoid some
of the mistakes that others have made:
http://members.tripod.com/realaliyah/
Essays on Why Make Aliyah?:
http://www.jr.co.il/aliyah/why.htm
World Zionist Organization articles on
Aliyah:
http://www.wzo.org.il/en/resources/expand_subject.asp?id=59
It is a great mitzvah to serve God with great joy,
always...R. Nachman of Breslov
Rabbi Barry Leff
Beth Tikvah Congregation
9711 Geal Road
Richmond, BC V7E 1R4
phone: (604) 271-6262
fax: (604) 271-6270
web: www.btikvah.ca
email: rebbarry@yeladim.org
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